
It’s no surprise that the typical approach to paying off debt focuses on, well, the debts themselves — their interest rates, what order to pay them in, etc — and often on ways to make extra money or reduce expenses.
But getting out of debt (and staying out of debt) is really about changing behavior. Change the behaviors that got you into debt in the first place, and you’ll have the hardest part licked. That’s where brainstorming your way out of debt comes in.
What it means
Brainstorming your way out of debt means taking a new approach to the expenses that crop up. Whether those are unexpected things like needing a new transmission for your car or more typical things like getting a flu shot, changing the way you think about getting the things you need and want changes everything.
The usual method
The usual way of buying something goes something like this:
1. See something you want or need
2. Maybe shop around a little or look for a deal
3. Buy it
Folks who are beginning to get a handle on their money do things a little bit differently:
1. See something you want or need
2. Shop around a little or look for a deal
3. Figure out if you can afford it
4. Buy it now if it fits within your budget, or plan ahead to buy it in the future
That’s a whole lot better than the first approach, but you can go further to really change your behavior for good.
(As a bonus, you’ll also reduce clutter, get out of debt faster, and find it easier to build future savings and investments — all by making one little painless behavioral change.)
The brainstormer’s approach
Brainstorming your way out of debt goes like this:
1. See something you want or need
2. Ask yourself questions
3. Take time to evaluate your options and make a decision
I can tell you from experience that short-circuiting the buying process leaves a whole lot more money in your wallet — money that you can use to get out of debt faster. Most importantly, this approach actively helps prevent you from using debt as a “solution”.
So what are the questions you can use to brainstorm alternatives? Ask yourself things like this:
- Do I have the money for it already?
- Is there something else I’d rather be doing with that money?
- What are 3 ways I could put off this purchase?
- How could I solve this problem for free, even temporarily?
- How could I solve this problem or make this purchase for less?
- Who do I know who could help with this?
- Who might have other ideas?
- If I don’t spend the money, will anything really bad happen because of that choice? (meaning, will I or a loved one die? Is it a dangerous situation?)
- If I don’t buy this right now, will I remember that I wanted it tomorrow?
- Am I just bored, or spending out of habit?
- Am I considering buying something out of fear? If so, how realistic are my fears? Could someone be taking advantage of me?
- Etc.
Of course, you don’t have to go through the entire list each time. But the larger the potential expense that you’re looking at, the more questions you should ask. The same is true if you’re in the habit of making frequent purchases.
Brainstorming your way out of debt boils down to this: Stop. Think. And then purchase, if you still want to and you’ve got the money.






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What’s neat about this is that my wife was telilng me JUST LAST NIGHT (!) about the same thing, but related to dieting/food/exercise. Just saying, “don’t eat this anymore” isn’t enough, you’ve got to brainstorm and really figurethings out more deeply. It’s funny to read this today saying the same thing for finances — and it’s true, man!
Personal finance & health have a lot in common!
very nice collection of questions to go through when you are considering a purchase.. i am going to save these off for the next time that i am tempted :-)
Your comment inspired me to make a little wallet-sized pdf with the questions on them for folks. Shoot me an email if you want it :)
“But getting out of debt (and staying out of debt) is really about changing behavior.” I could not agree more! Until you deal with that behavior, you’re much less likely to see real and measurable success.
That’s absolutely the key!
Great list of questions–regardless of how you do it, taking time to fully analyze a purchase decision can only bring benefits–when I do this, I often find myself not buying the item in the end!
Just stopping to think makes all the difference :)
(Email me if you’d like a copy of the questions you can print in wallet size.)
I love the brainstorming approach to debt freedom! I started doing a little of that recently, because I want to meet my debt-free goal very badly. I ended up taking a trip for a funeral and messing up my financial plans, but I still want to make that deadline. The questions you pose for the brainstorming approach are a great addition to help me on my way. Great post!
It really makes a difference. Happy deadline-making :)
You’re talking about a lifestyle change, really – internalizing the purchase and deciding if it’s really right for you (not just your budget), right?
Hm, I’m not so sure it’s a lifestyle change as it is a habit change. It’s taking the time to stop and THINK, rather than just buy.